You will need:
1) A mirror,most any kind, other than compact
2) 2 candles, of any color---pink is a good choice, as it
brings friendship and romance
3) yourself :)
in a place that is comfortable for sitting a while, and
fire safe, place the mirror with a candle on each side.
Light the candles...turn down, or off, any artificial
light. Now, sit down in front of the mirror, gaze at
your reflection. Sit comfortably, and relaxed. Notice
all your good qualities...focus on them...then say aloud
how wonderful this feature (eyes, for ex.) are..notice
their shape, and color, speak of them aloud...do this
with all your best features..smile at yourself :)
Tell yourself, how wonderful you are...state all the
positive aspects of your personality, (your humor, your
willingness to help others, etc) name all the beautiful
traits, that make you special...speak of them aloud, and
with confidence...(It may not be as easy as it sounds!)
Now comes the really hard part....hopefully, with
practice, and by doing the above things, this will be
easier to do!
~~~Say these words~~ (or whatever suits YOU!) :)
I am beautiful (or handsome) on the outside
I am wonderful within
I am special unto myself,
So let the love come in!
Negative thoughts, they vanish
I now toss them out
Negative feelings, be banished,
To let my love shine out!
Repeat this, at least 5 times per sitting. And do at
least, once a day--you may reuse the candles, but PLEASE
DO NOT blow them out! (It is an insult, to the air to
fire elements) Use a snuffer, or..wet your fingers, and
pinch them out.
As you get more used to doing this spell, you may repeat
these words, or any words that YOU chose (spells are
great, when made personal...maybe, in time, and with
practice, you will want to change them, or maybe you'll
want to do that right away..or, not at all..whatever YOU
prefer) :) Also--to make an attraction charm, to wear,
simply, find a chain, with a pendant that suits you, and
drape over the mirror while doing your spell...or wear
it, so it is in sight, as you do your spell. The charm
gains strength, as you continue to work the spell.
This spell works! In time---you will see a noticable
difference, in the number of people who approach you.
I like to do this spell, before I go out, anywhere!
(Much like putting on makeup in the morning...or, for
you guys....showering and shaving!) :)
Many blessings to you!!
Rhowan